Need help with a guy?

Well you can't jump in and think you are gonna distract him. From what he is already going through before you came into the picture. Just be yourself and text or talk on Facebook. don't try to force yourself in or push it. Let this situation die down with this girl he like before you get hurt. At the same time just kindly let him know you are there if he needs a friend or someone to talk to, good luck!