What to say tonight 10 Points?

First from what I understand you met while her relationship was still in progress. 3 months ago she was still with her ex bf and you met her and you all talked on the phone and fb. She broke up out a 3 year relationship only 2 weeks ago...Dude she don't know what to do at the moment she is a calm female who is using you to replace her feelings and emotions she had for her ex...come on...3 years with someone don't go away in 2 weeks. Even if you are kissing. You are a whole other person than her ex with different views on life and a different personality. But to set things straight you can bring up the the truth. One you can tell her you like her a lot because you do and I know you have told her before. Second you can bring up what you want out of you and her relationship with her. Like I mentioned she is (using you) on fb to put up a in relationship status. Come on....really...and your not in the relationship...just a few kisses here and there... So if you want the 2 of you to be a couple tell her that. Third you can tell her or bring up how her actions have been irregular (signs of a break up that's not behind you yet) and that they bother you sending mixed signals...kiss then quiet....kiss then quiet...what's wrong "it's stress"..kiss again then...who knows...set up lunch and you get a NO SHOW ...more signs from a break up...especially with a NO CALL...so in the end she is going to need so time but there is nothing wrong with you liking her...just don't end up as the rebound guy with your feelings all caught up and she doesn't really give back...don't be fooled by a few kisses....If you talk about all this you won't sound desperate but more cautious about yourself and your feelings. If you go along with the whole show you will sound desperate if not already because you haven't put your foot down but instead have been getting thrown left and right. I wish you the best!!